| THE EPISTOLARIAN |

In a world abuzz with FOMO, the Fear of Missing Out, and the occasional sigh of relief expressed through ROMO, the Relief of Missing Out, I’m creating a new concept—one that weaves the fabric of contentment and joy. Welcome to the Romance of Missing Out, a celebration of the unexpected beauty found in altered plans and the embrace of solitude.

In the relentless pursuit of experiences and constant connectivity, the idea of missing out often sparks anxiety. FOMO, that ever-present companion, nudges us to chase after every invitation and event, fearing that the choice we make might exclude us from something extraordinary. But what if missing out is not a void to be feared, but a canvas for the art of serendipity?

Enter ROMO, the Relief of Missing Out. Sometimes plans change, and the universe gifts us a chance to step back, breathe, and revel in the simplicity of solitude. ROMO acknowledges that not every social gathering or event is essential, and the relief felt can be a profound source of tranquility. It’s about choosing to stay home, savoring the quiet moments, and finding fulfillment in the absence of a crowded agenda.

Now, let’s elevate ROMO to a new level—the Romance of Missing Out. Picture this: a rainy afternoon, an artist tucked away in the cocoon of home, wrapped in the warmth of blankets with a cup of tea. The rhythmic patter of raindrops becomes a soothing melody, creating a sanctuary where the artist can unfold their creativity.

During these stolen moments of tranquility, there’s a romance in doing nothing at all. No obligations, no rush—just the luxury of time. Perhaps the artist picks up a pen and writes letters to friends. Or maybe they dive into the pages of a novel, exploring new worlds within ones quiet quarters.

In the Romance of Missing Out, time is a gentle companion rather than a ticking adversary.

So, the next time plans take an unexpected turn, consider embracing ROMO—the Romance of Missing Out. Let the rain be your music, the tea your elixir, and the sanctuary of home your canvas for a masterpiece of serene contentment.​
​Seal of the Week: Death Blowing Bubbles

​This wax seal captures Death in a whimsical moment, blowing bubbles that dance through the air in a beautiful, fleeting display. It prompts reflection on the cycle of life, death, and rebirth.

Inspired by Johann Georg Laimberger's 1730s stucco art in the Church of St. Michael in Bamberg, Germany, this seal echoes his portrayal of mortality. Laimberger's depiction of Death blowing bubbles, holding a shell and pipe, particularly caught my attention as a favorite, subtly reminding us of life's impermanence.

I've created 11 of these engraved as collector's seals, with a beautiful black lacquered handle.

The Church of St. Michael in Bamberg, Germany, stands as a testament to centuries of history and artistic expression. Established in the 12th century, this Romanesque gem has undergone various transformations, bearing witness to the dynamic cultural shifts of the region.

However, it was in the 18th century that the church received a touch of baroque magnificence through the skilled hands of Johann Georg Laimberger. In the 1730s, Laimberger, a masterful stucco artist, embarked on a transformative endeavor within the church, adorning its interior with intricate stucco work.

Laimberger's stucco creations in the Church of St. Michael are nothing short of breathtaking. His artistry weaves seamlessly into the architectural fabric, gracing ceilings and walls with intricate designs that reflect the opulence and exuberance of the baroque era. The Chapel of the Holy Sepulchre within the church, in particular, became a canvas for Laimberger's creative brilliance.

Among the series of depictions of death, one stands out—a subtle yet powerful portrayal of Death blowing bubbles. With a shell in hand and a pipe to the lips, this motif encapsulates the fragility of life and the ephemeral nature of existence. Laimberger's stucco work invites contemplation, prompting viewers to reflect on the impermanence woven into the very fabric of life.

The Church of St. Michael, enriched by Laimberger's artistry, continues to be a cultural and historical treasure. It stands not only as a place of worship but as a living canvas that tells the story of Bamberg's past, where artistic mastery and spiritual contemplation converge. Here is a gallery of some of my favorite depictions...

Two Collectors Seals

In addition to the gorgeous Death Blowing Bubbles seal, I also have launched a witch seal, with the inscription "All Have their Hobbies." It’s based off an antique motif of a witch riding a broom with the same inscription. 🧙‍♀️

I included the witch and the inscription but placed her in her full power in nature with her castle behind her. She has dominion over her entire world. It’s less silly than the original motif but I still love it. What about you?

This highly detailed seal looks amazing plain but I also love it painted. Does it speak to you too?

About special editions - The first 11 are engraved with a number and includes your name in the collector’s register. This way the collectors seals can be better more easily traced in 20 years, 50 years, 100 years, etc. Your patronage also supports future collections so we can bring the art of letter writing and highly artistic wax seals to the world.

I have a few more of the witch seal available but only the first 11 will be in the collector's register. First come, first serve. Order here.

The two newest seals together. The Memento Mori shows the two-toned method, and the witch fully painted with enamel paints. Both methods are available through Kathryn Hastings courses.

Mastering Two-Toned Wax Seals: The Kathryn Hastings Technique

This week, my newest evergreen course launches. It will teach you how to make gorgeous two-tone seals through the pour and scrape method I invented.

Candidly, this is one of the most difficult techniques in the art of wax seals. It took me three weeks to invent and master with non-stop practice and many expletives! The good news is that you won't need to go through all the trouble I did to master this technique. I share my best practices to get a perfect two-tone seal each time, and also share my favorite color theory advice for making swoon-worthy seals.

Like always, the pre-order option gives you access to the course as soon as it becomes available and also gives you a slightly lower rate than those who sign up later.

Shop Update: Velké Losiny

For those who were worried they missed out last week, I have restocked the Velké Losiny rose paper, and the Irena paper will follow in November.

Previously, I had carried small sets of this paper with 20 sheets or so. I now am launching them in boxes of 50 and 100 loose sheets, starting with this gorgeous rose-watermark paper. It is true heirloom paper, which you can use in your life and also pass on to loved ones too.

On the podcast: Fitzgeralds' Fatherly Wisdom

This week on the 1 Sealed Letter Podcast, I recorded a short episode about a letter that F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote to his daughter Frances ("Scottie") whilst she was away at camp.

He shares some advice for what to worry about and what not to worry about, which still apply today. We also talk some about Fitzgerald's own struggles, and how his advice both applied and didn't apply for him personally.

​Listen to the episode here.​